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Jun 24, 20233 min

Can an empathic person control a narcissist? (Originally asked on Quora)

Can an empathic person control a narcissist? (Originally asked on Quora and declined as a submission to a space, however..) Hello there...

Mar 23, 20234 min

HEALING TRAUMA

You have enough powerful empathy and emotional Intelligence to carry your own trauma burdens while enduring or carrying others..

Feb 25, 20231 min

What hurts a narcissist forever?

Narcissists thrive on attention and validation from others, so withholding this can be a powerful tool in setting boundaries with them.

Feb 25, 20232 min

Is hypervigilance a preventive mechanism to defend against trauma after narcissistic abuse?

Hypervigilance is useful when transitioning through the stages of emotionally rebuilding oneself following abuse...

Feb 8, 20235 min

How do you defend yourself when a narcissist uses projective identification on you?

Ah, lovely. Projective identification sounds just way more real than plain old ‘gas lighting’. I like this formalised approach, it...

May 30, 20223 min

Is it allowed to post the name of our narcs in order to see if others have encountered them?

Nope. Doxing is still a shitty thing to do. We compare notes anyway in our shared answers and collective knowledge. A narcissist, whilst...

May 18, 20223 min

Why does a narcissist deny saying things when you heard them quite clearly?

Hello there 👋, Why that's your most basic of gaslighting tactics. Imagine, just for a moment that what your doing is attempting to teach...

May 18, 20225 min

How does a narcissist control an empathic person?

One of the greatest lessons I learnt from the saga of living with my very own narc is how they mirror. We need to understand that when we...

May 18, 20221 min

What makes a narcissist disappointed?

I'm going to answer this question really short.. these are actual quotes from my personal recordings of abuse of my abuser just sometimes...